Friday Sex Positive Music
I really like the new Rihanna song “Rude Boy”. I like it a lot. And when you start listening to the lyrics, it can actually be read as a very sex positive song. I especially like this verse (at about 2:26).
I like the way you touch me there
I like the way you pull my hair
Babe, if I don’t feel it I ain’t faking, no, no
I like when you tell me ‘kiss you there’
I like when you tell me ‘move it there’
Not only is Rihanna telling her partner what she likes and expressing sexual desire (ZOMG! Women who want sex!?!), she also refuses to fake an orgasm. AND tells her partner that he can also say what (presumably) he likes to do. I love that this song makes it sexy to talk about what you’re doing and let your partner know what turns you on. Here’s the video, it’s pretty sweet. I’m gonna go dance through my day with Rihanna stuck in my head.